My Constant Fear About Eating Out
Ever since I have embarked on my lifestyle change I have been facing challenges at every step of the way. Elliptical machine breaking down, injury that would hinder my running, weights getting harder and harder to lift instead of easier, but the biggest challenge still has to do with food.
A proper diet is the most important aspect of the healthy lifestyle trinity; diet, strength training and cardio exercise. And this is the part where a lot of people fall short or sabotage themselves, their goals and progress. I have seen a lot of people going to the gym then eat a juicy burger with fries afterward and wash it down with a large soft drink. I have seen people crossing the finish line at the 5K race and head straight for the cookies and Gatorade at the recovery table instead of the carrots and water. I have seen people stepping off the elliptical machine to gulp down 400 calories worth of “recovery drink”. And I have heard of numerous people doing a P90X training program but ignoring the nutritional booklet that comes with it.
I can safely say that I am trying to stay on top of my diet. I have no cheat meals, no cheat days, no cheat weeks. I just have healthy eating day in day out. But there are times when you get a curve ball thrown at you and you just have to roll with it. Eating out with family and friends can definitely be a huge curve ball.
Every time we have a birthday lunch at work I get very concerned. I’m hoping that the birthday person will pick something healthy and I would feel comfortable picking a food item off the menu but usually people are quite inconsiderate of my food choices when they pick their birthday lunch. It’s their birthday after all. So how can you cope with this kind of problem?
I could simply say “no thank you” and not go. But somehow I feel that is not the right thing to do. I want to be part of the team and partake in the company lunch. So I am obligated to go. I could always just go but not eat. I have a co-worker who does just that. He will go out with the rest of the lunch crowd and have an ice tea with no sugar and just partake in the social aspect of the lunch. But he definitely gets a lot of crap for it every time. I on the other hand love to go out. But I always fear the menu and I feel like restaurants are like a box of chocolate: you just don’t know what you’re gonna get.
I’m getting better and better at navigating the menus at restaurants and I can put together a mental image of what every item probably contains calorie and nutrient wise. I always try to look up the restaurant’s menu and hopefully nutritional guide on-line before we arrive to the place. If nutritional guide is not available I will try to find nutritional information for a similar restaurant and go with their estimates. I mean a fajita is a fajita and probably contains similar amounts of meat regardless which restaurant prepared it.
Like my favorite Mexican restaurant Uncle Julio’s does not provide nutritional information. But On The Border does. So I am pretty sure I need to stay away from the chips and salsa regardless of which one I end up at. I also know that eating 4 flour tortillas is probably not the best thing to eat and maybe two should be a wiser decision.
Then you also have the situation when you check out their menu and nutritional guide at home, go to the place and they don’t serve what you picked out. Panera Bread claims to be healthy eating. They are, as long as you stick with their vegetarian black bean soup, which is very tasty, and half a Frontega Chicken Pannini. But if you go on a Sunday instead of a Saturday they don’t serve vegetarian black bean soup. Instead they have sugar infested tomato soup or saturated fat horror baked potato soup. So what do you do? You suck it up and roll with it. It is not the end of the world and you just make the best decision you can.
Sometimes I go to a restaurant that I used to visit often but have not been back in a long time, especially since my lifestyle change. These places can be a total crap shoot. You can walk in all confident believing that you know the menu and end up sorely disappointed with the once loved food. This actually happened to me at Razzoo’s just a couple of weeks ago. You can also find a pleasant surprise and find a completely different section of the menu with food selections you would have never considered in a million years before.
Sometimes I end up at restaurants that I have never visited before. And they also tend to be hole in the wall time establishments that don’t even have a website let alone nutritional guides. So you go and fly blind. You hope for the best and you make the best of it. The office group recently visited a restaurant called Yucatan Taco Stand. They make decent burrito bowls and fish tacos but they don’t provide nutritional information. I was going to order something extravagant off their menu had I known the nutritional value but since I was clueless I stuck with a burrito bowl instead and used Chipotle’s nutrition guide to estimate the calories. I have also tried to contact the restaurant via e-mail but they chose not to respond to my query.
So as much as I love eating out nowadays it’s a mixed feeling every time the office party decides to go out. I feel like I’m out of my comfort zone and it puts me into a new challenge every time. I love challenges but I feel the rewards are not always worth it. So how do you feel about eating out when on a diet? What do you do? Do you have any advice for me how to tackle situations like this?
I decided from the beginning of my weight loss journey to build eating out regularly into my plan. For my lifestyle (a single guy who eats out a lot with friends to socialize), I knew if I didn’t, I would be setting myself up for too many temptations. I wrote a post on some of my strategies last month:
http://www.reconstructingthirty.com/2010/01/19/eating-out-without-pigging-out/
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Thanks for the link Chad! It was a great to read your perspective! It’s not all that different. It’s actually quite the same as mine.
I don’t stress about it and just try and choose a reasonably healthy option. I’m in this healthy living thing for the long run so one or two bad meals every few weeks or so is not going to matter as long as I’m eating healthy most of the time.
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One or two won’t make a difference. My problem is one or two per week just might break the camel’s back. So I have to be very cautious. I’m kind of looking forward to not having to live on a calorie deficit and just start concentrating on running. Another 4 months or so and I’ll be there.
You should be afraid be very afraid. Its a land mind for me, even if you do good on calories you may get a jolt of unexpected salt that blows your next weigh-in causing you to get depressed and then overeat at home. I would avoid them as much as you could for now.
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Yeah, I haven’t even touched on the subject of sodium. It’s so far down the list of things to worry about that I won’t even bother with it. Now that doesn’t mean I eat copious amounts of it but if I eat more than I should I don’t sweat it. Actually I do, in the literal sense when I do my runs and lose all that fluid along with the excess sodium.
The more you keep things in mind, the more likely you are to do the smart thing. Funny about looking at food and guessing calories. I think I do that pretty well. Not so way back. Restaurant salads for instance can have as many calories as a burger.
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Yeah, salads can be super tricky. I personally stay away from the rabbit food if I can help it. I’m more of a steamed veggie kind of guy, obviously without the oil or other high calorie stuff.
Eating out is scary and hard. You are way stronger than I am when it comes to restaurants!
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